Should I Get Them a Gift?
You’ve been dating someone pretty exclusively for a few weeks, but you aren’t sure whether or not to give them a gift and what kind? There are a couple of things to consider and then we’ll offer suggestions.
Don’t do it too soon. If you’ve only been on a few dates, a gift for Christmas sends a “desperate” message. A beautiful card and a walk in a decorated neighborhood or part of the city will suffice.
Like with everyone on your list, make sure you would be giving the gift for the right reason. The gift isn’t to get the recipient to like you more or to snag a gift for yourself. It’s to share a warm sentiment.
Make sure it won’t be perceived incorrectly. You can only do so much about this, but listen to your gut. If the person you are dating doesn’t demonstrate their feelings very much, a gift may put them off. On the flip side, someone who is extremely warm and generous will likely get you a gift and will enjoy receiving them as well.
So, what should you get them if you do decide to share some holiday joy? Keep your budget small! It is totally unnerving to get a large, expensive gift early in a relationship. A nice scarf works great for either gender. Also consider a quality journal, gloves, a book that means something to you or the recipient or a DVD of a movie you saw together. Tickets to an event is nice (sports for the boys! concert or theater for the girls!) and infers that you want to spend time with them.
The holidays are tricky enough with family and friends. We know it can be nerve-wracking to try and decide if and what to buy for someone you are dating. We’d love to hear what YOU are doing this year for your boyfriend or girlfriend. Leave your ideas in the comment section below!
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